Ron Hutchcraft Ministries - Hurt and Hiding

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Life Issues - Abuse

Do you feel alone and have been too hurt to trust anyone? Somewhere along the way you've been hurt, abandoned, betrayed, or mistreated.

You're afraid to let anyone get close. In fact, you may have built up some pretty elaborate defenses to make sure no one does. You're really just afraid that they'll hurt you like someone else did.

Do you feel like no one else knows or understands what you're going through? There is someone today who does understand. He is waiting for you with His arms wide open, and He's the healing that your heart has always wanted. His name is Jesus.

Jesus is seeking you and wants to win your trust. He only wants to love and help you. His love will break through all of your fear and hurt. You've probably been looking and longing for this real love for a long time. It can be yours.

Jesus is waiting for you. He wants to comfort you and be your healer. Read these words from the Word of God that describe Him in Isaiah 61:1-2 , "The Lord has anointed me to preach good news to the poor; He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom to the captives, and release from darkness for the prisoners." You see, Jesus is the healer of broken hearts and broken lives, the liberator from the darkness.

You might wonder if He can be trusted. The answer is found in Romans 8:32 , "He who did not spare His own son but gave him up for us all - how will He not also graciously give us all things." Later in that chapter it says, "Nothing can ever separate us from His love."

So, can Jesus be trusted? If you walk up that hill and stand in the pouring rain at the foot of His cross, you will see the agony Jesus suffered there. The nails in His hands and feet, the thorns pressed on His brow, the spear wound in His side, but most of all the total separation from God. You will then realize that He died to pay the death penalty for your sin.

Yes, you can trust this one who loved you enough to die for you. He's been waiting for you to turn your life over to Him so He can start the healing process that only He can bring. First you have to tell Him that you're putting your total trust in Him to be your Savior. That word "trust" is a hard one after what you've been through, but you can't just go on hurting, hiding, and feeling alone.

This one who loves you so much that He gave everything He had for you; He's the one person you can finally trust!


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0 By Lisa M on May 23, 2010 at 9:37 pm
I trust that God does love me but don't understand why I'm forced to stay in a marriage where betrayal is a common re-run. I've been hurt so much that I don't even know how to love any more. I often think life would be better for all if I were not around any longer. I don't even really know who I am because I've surpressed my hurt for so long to turn the attention off me and really try to make others happy. The hurt is so deep that I feel like I am fading. Trusting God, but still fading.
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0 By Alyssa on October 21, 2010 at 9:48 am
OMG! Someone who is going through the same thing as me. Oh my Sister... I know this pain too well and for so long. The only one who can heal us and repair us and take us to the other side is Jesus. Hold on to Him and keep seeking Him as I do.. some days are easy others are not.. but I know He is there with me.. as well as you.
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+1 By Nancy on January 5, 2011 at 9:15 pm
Lisa, I know your pain. I am not sure though why you feel forced to stay in a realtionship where you have been betrayed? It sounds to me like this person has some serious boundary issues for his lack of respect for you and for that he has broken that boundary of trust. It sounds like he has issues of his own. Lisa, God knows your pain and he hears earnest prayers and God will answer your prayer in earnest, not in your time, but in his time...the right time. He has a lesson for you to learn here.
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+1 By O.J. Gloor on May 24, 2010 at 11:22 am
Lisa ..Thank you for trusting us with your heart cry for help!
We just wanted to assure you that we will be sending prayers up to the Father in heaven in your behalf. Thank you for trusting us to share this burden with you.

Contact us here for more help and prayers: http://www.hutchcraft.com/contact-us-outreach

We have some free information and resources that I think can help!
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0 By Mr. Mishap on June 8, 2010 at 3:49 am
I am a new Christian. I was baptized about a month ago, at the height of a marital crisis. My wife cheated on me and she told me about this while I was studying the Bible prior to baptism. I turned to God and held on. But somehow I have not totally forgiven her. Now, I feel that my predicament has hindered my relationship with God. I feel lost.
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0 By O.J. Gloor on June 11, 2010 at 2:48 pm
Forgiveness and our relationship with God are linked. Check out Ephesians 4:32 and remember that we have been forgiven big time by God as we think about those who have hurt us. Releasing them from our desire for their hurt really frees us to go on with God and his plan.
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0 By greenie on November 19, 2010 at 1:27 pm
my husband has a sexual addiction and time after time after time he has continued and lied and hid it to/from me. He now claims that he is ready to be done with it and give it over to God and be pure and faithful in our marriage and I want to forgive him but what does that look like do I just ignore any thoughts of the past? or what does that look like? I have no ill will for him just want him to have a growing love relationship with God but I have NO TRUST in my husband at all!
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0 By Nancy on January 8, 2011 at 4:15 pm
Dear Greenie,
Are you more concerned with what he has done with what others think, or what you think? You stated twice in your comments you wondered what that looked like? I need to ask how long the two of you have been married? Basically, is this a new married or one with some longevity?
You will have to set some boundaries here for the both of you and stick to them. You will have to dig deep in your heart with prayer and love to find the answers you seek. GOD will not fail you!
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0 By Ran B on December 22, 2011 at 7:01 pm
I am divorced my wife was so controlling that the day I fought back it was over for me. She would hit when she got real mad , but I did not untill the last fight we had. I still regret doing that, but I had enough. Even today she is causeing problems with me and makeing it look like it is my fault. I cant get completly away until 2013 have a bill that I have to give half to pay on it. Dont trust her to give it to someone else. I just wish things would be alright , but there is so much bad blood
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