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Two wedding ringsI was excited to learn that they'll be serving beetroot blinis at the Royal Wedding breakfast. And there will be edible flowers on the wedding fruitcake. Oh yeah - and there are 32,500 stitches in the waistcoats they're making for the footmen. Yes, the news folks have gone a little "daft" (British-ism) over the wedding of William and Kate.

News anchors are flocking to London like swallows flocking to San Juan Capistrano. It's amusing to see them getting on-air lessons in royal etiquette and which hat to wear. Normally cool journalists have turned absolutely giddy!

You can't miss it - this wedding is a really big deal.

But, then, so is every wedding. Actually, you could say that every wedding is a royal wedding. Because the King is the Guest of honor, invited or not.

You can see that in the Bible where some religious folks were wondering why God wasn't responding to their prayers. Surprisingly, His answer was about their marriages.

He said, "'The Lord is acting as the witness between you and the wife of your youth, because you have broken faith with her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant. Has not the Lord made them one?...Do not break faith with the wife of your youth. I hate divorce,' says the Lord God" (Malachi 2:14 ).

The King of all kings is there when a man and woman pledge their lives to each other. He doesn't sign the marriage certificate, but He sure is a witness.

And He takes our marriage vows very seriously, whether we do or not. God says He has "made them one" and "what God has joined together, let man not separate" (Mark 10:9 ).

Every wedding, every marriage, every couple really matters to God. He's there at every wedding, and He takes the vows as promises to Him.

But it's not just His presence at the wedding that's significant. It's His presence in the marriage. He's the glue when conflict is pulling you apart...the source of love when yours has run out...the Surgeon who can change a heart...the third Person in your marriage who's a couple's "go to" place when there's nowhere else to go.

I love it that, of all the places Jesus could have done His first miracle, He chose to do it at a wedding. And that's where hope is for a marriage that seems too broken to fix. Because He still does marriage miracles. Sometimes all the King's horses and all the King's men can't put a marriage together again.

But the King can.

 

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+2 By Jeffrey Flaker on April 26, 2011 at 1:11 pm
I am still hoping for an intervening miracle. It can never be too late or too broken for this to happen.
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0 By Dave Dagwell on April 27, 2011 at 6:35 am
Your remarks are so appropriate for us as we want to communicate similar thoughts to our grandchildren this summer at our 50th Wedding Anniversary. And your counsel is so needed and should be followed as we see so many younger couples on the brink of divorce because they have put their personal feelings ahead of their commitment to God.
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0 By Dave Dagwell on April 27, 2011 at 6:44 am
Another Bible verse that puts marriage in perspective for me has been, "Live happily with the woman you through the fleeting years of life, for the wife God gives you is your best reward down here for all your earthly toil." Eccl 9:9
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0 By John Bevel on April 27, 2011 at 11:01 am
What if, like me, you have blown it, marriage that is, more than once? How do I pray for a marriage to be put back together again . . . and which one? I understand God hates divorce, not me, but I really struggle with this issue now. I'm forgiven, but will He ever use me now?
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0 By Jeffrey Flaker on April 27, 2011 at 11:35 am
He will use you. What was it that is causing this failure in the marriage relationship. One of Pastor Ron's "A Word With You" talks about CRUD-entials. you may not have CREDENTIALS in relationship things, but you can certainly and Biblically tell others what to look for and how to possibly fix things.

God has ALWAYS used bad for his Glory....And you may be one of them
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0 By Pam White on April 27, 2011 at 9:23 pm
Of course he can use you. Remember the woman at the well? She had 5 husbands, I believe, and the one she was with wasn't her husband. God forgives us, gives us new living water, and tells us to press on and carry the message. So you hold your head up and go carry the message. You still have a testimony to give for we are overcome by the Blood of the Lamb and the Word of our Testimony. Amen! Love, Sis. Pam
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0 By Dave Dagwell on April 27, 2011 at 9:33 pm
John B. read 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 and remember that adversity is often the beginning of something good.
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0 By John Bevel on April 28, 2011 at 12:12 pm
Thank you all for comments, counsel and encouragement. Though my 'all' may not be that much and it may not be pretty, I do surrender it 'all' to Him.
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0 By Jeffrey Flaker on April 28, 2011 at 12:31 pm
John
When you have done all that YOU can, that is when you give it to God so that He can do what ONLY HE CAN.
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0 By Esther Cochran on April 30, 2011 at 6:06 pm
I serve in China. A piece of marriage certificate makes people think they are married. Most of them already live together anyway. A young couple is getting a divorce because they have lost love after married for less than a year! Both are the only child. Have college degrees and good jobs. They have not had sex! Another young couple are going through a divorce. They've only lived together for one month, then the husband disappeared for the rest of the time! Please pray for me as I counsel them.
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