Ron Hutchcraft Ministries - You Win, I Win - #6478

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Wednesday, November 9, 2011

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Joey's story really touched me. Joey ran in the handicapped Olympics that were held in conjunction with the Olympics in Seoul, Korea some years ago. Of course it was at a separate location, and in his particular track event there were only two people competing. Well, Joey got off to a good start, but of course because of his handicaps, his arms and legs were flailing and he wasn't very graceful. The announcer was heard to say at the beginning of the race, "I'm glad I'm not like Joey."

Well, as Joey took the lead, his coach kept yelling over the sounds of a crowd who were basically dispersing for the day, "Come on, Joey, you're a winner! You can do it!" And as Joey continued to increase his lead, he would chant and say, "Come on, Joey, that's it! You're a winner! You're a winner!" Well, Joey was doing better and better, and his coach's cheers were getting louder and louder.

And then suddenly Joey stopped in his tracks. What happened after that melted that announcer's heart, and actually mine too when I heard about it. Maybe you'll be like me. Maybe you'll want to be like Joey.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about "You Win, I Win."

Well, our word for today from the Word of God comes from Acts 9 . We'll get to that after you hear what Joey did when he stopped in his tracks during the race. Much to the consternation of his coach, he turned to his opponent; the only other guy in the race and yelled, "Come on! You're a winner too! You're a winner too!" His coach ran out to the track and yelled, "No! You don't want him to be a winner! You're the winner!"

Well, no matter what the coach said, Joey waited for that other boy to catch up. And then they crossed the finish line together with their arms raised in victory. The announcer who had said at the beginning of the race, "Sure glad I'm not like Joey" at the end was heard to say, "I sure wish I was more like Joey" and so do I.

See, in a competitive, I've got to make it world; the real heroes are the people who make other people winners. Acts 9 tells us about Barnabas, who we are told was the one who when the disciples didn't know what to do with Saul of Tarsus—this former Christian Persecutor—it says, "Barnabas took him and brought him to the apostles." And then we're told in Acts 11:25 , "Barnabas went to Tarsus to look for Saul." Then in chapter 13, God says, "Separate for me Barnabas and Saul for the work." And then by the end of that chapter it says, "Paul and Barnabas were leaving the synagogue." Did you notice, Barnabas was in the front seat when we started here, and suddenly he's taken a back seat?

See, Barnabas? Well, he was like Joey. He didn't have to come out on top; he didn't care it they remembered his name. He just wanted others to win. Wow! Are you like that? Your Master was. He gave up His life for ours so we can win eternal life. Your friends need someone who's willing to put aside their own interests and to say, "You're a winner! You can make it!"

You see, your children need that kind of encouragement from you. They need to know not just what needs improving. We're really good as parents at talking about that. They need to know what they are doing right. "You can do it! You're a winner, my daughter! You're a winner, my son!" And the people at work starved for encouragement, the people at your church; again there could be a lot of shame, there could be a lot of guilt, there could be a lot of condemnation. A lot of people don't feel very important. A lot of people feel on the edges—excluded. Will you be the one who pushes other people to the front? You won't lose if you stop promoting you and start promoting others. You'll both win.

So, be like your Master. Enable someone else to be a winner. Look at the people close to you and quit trying to beat them, or use them, or to control them. Look at them and say, "Hey, if you win, I win."

 

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-3 By marvin purser on November 9, 2011 at 5:40 am
I noticed the lesson taught here during my debates with those who write me back. Most of them remain in their traditional way of thinking and must win at all cost, make like they have no idea what i am talking about, and make it appear as though i am just confusing. I have no intention but to spread the Gospel as I know it has been missed. I learn from the debate, not win.
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+2 By Jonathan H on November 9, 2011 at 6:07 am
While there may be some merit to what you said, I most often come to this site to be reminded of God's grace, His Truth, forgiveness, and call to love the world He died for. I appreciate the need at times for debate, and for challenging ideas (after all I work at a secular college) so long as, like you said-the goal isn't to win or prove I'm right, but to help people see Christ more clearly. I think debate is difficult on a blog though, because it is not in the context of relationship.Blessings.
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+2 By Required Theology on November 9, 2011 at 10:13 am
Marvin, you get flack from some comments that would lead others away from God. Some beliefs are essential, or by definition you really don't trust God. Here are some of these essential beliefs: God is just, which means he will punish severely as well as reward. We all have had a deadly sin nature, causing us all to sin. Forgiveness is offered to remove sin nature and punishment. We must be accept that although we don't deserve mercy, we accept his sacrifice to bear our penalty.
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0 By Bill Donovan on November 9, 2011 at 6:31 am
When the kids in our catechism class compiled a list of the challenges they face in their lives, "Not to get too competitive" was near the top of the list. So, why not? What's the alternative? The story about Joey will fill in some blanks for them, I'm sure. As the moral of the story states, "You won't lose if you stop promoting you and start promoting others."
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