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A Word With You - Your Hindrances

Monday, July 23, 2012

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I heard not long ago about a little boy who was trying to move this huge rock. He pulled, and he pushed, and grunted and strained, trying to move it with leverage from a board, but it was all to no avail. Finally his Dad said, "Son, have you used all your resources?" "Oh, yeah, Dad. I can't make it move! I've tried everything." And his Dad replied, "No, you haven't. You haven't asked me to help you yet."

Maybe you're at a point right now. Oh, you're not a little boy, but you've got a big rock that needs to move and you desperately need your father's help. But you're going it alone doing everything you can to move it. Well actually, there's something that keeps your Father right now from lifting that load of yours.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about "What Keeps Your Father From Helping?"

Our word for today from the Word of God is found in Hebrews 12:15 . It starts out talking about a very sobering possibility. "See to it," the writer says, "that no one misses the grace of God." Man, there's a lot of things in your life that you could do without, but you cannot go without the grace of God. This says, "See that you don't miss God's grace."

Now, he's writing to believers here. This doesn't mean you don't become a Christian. It means that as a believer, you need God's grace but for some reason you don't have it. And maybe you're in a situation now like that little boy where you've got a big rock to move and the pressure is really heavy. And, well, maybe there's a family problem, or there's this financial boulder to move, you've got medical responsibilities, whatever is crushing you right now. But God's grace is supposed to be sufficient, right? What happened? Why is this so hard? Well, maybe you're missing the grace of God. How do you do that?

Well, listen to the second half of the verse, "...and see to it that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many." Wow! Think about what this verse is saying.

Bitterness blocks the grace of God. Your Father cannot help you lift that rock if there is bitterness in your heart. Now, you may not realize it; you may not call it that, but bitterness has taken root. You've been under all this pressure, and maybe you're angry and you're resentful toward a family member because of their part in your frustration. Maybe you've got bad feelings that have grown toward a teacher, an employer, a coworker who is making your life miserable. Maybe you're even bitter toward God because you don't understand what He's doing or why He's waiting. There's somebody in your past, and they're just running your life basically because you can't stop thinking about what they did to you and how you feel toward them.

Somewhere, maybe, there's this boiling anger inside, and like a great cloud that suddenly blocks out the sun, your bitterness is blocking the grace of God just when you need it most. Ironically, you've never needed God's strength, and His closeness, and His peace more than you do now. This rock is too heavy for you, but your prayer seems hollow and you feel so alone, even at the breaking point. Maybe it's because you've got some forgiving to do, some letting go of a hurt, trusting God to meet out justice to make things right.

Your Father is standing there ready to help as only He can, but you've got to release that bitterness that's making your burden so much heavier. Why carry that load too? Your Father wants to trade your bitterness for His energizing grace.

 

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0 By Jem on July 23, 2012 at 7:24 am
Ok. I get this message but I'm still lost. My husband cheated multiple times, once with a friend. I simply can't forgive on my own. I know I have bitterness, I know I have anger. I have been turning to God for years asking Him to help me remove it from my heart.

As I read this, it seems that I need to remove it myself. But I can't seem to do so, that's why I keep asking God. So if I can't do it myself and God can't help me until I do, am I just stuck in this pain forever?
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+4 By DaaBoss on July 23, 2012 at 9:22 am
There's a huge difference in "feeling hurt", and "being bitter". Perhaps over time, most of the hurt feeling will be gone, but don't count on it.

However, we choose to either be bitter, or do what David did. Admit to God you are angry and hurt, but then leave the results to God. You can only feel confident God will take care of it if you are convinced he will and cares. Decide not to take or want revenge, and He will take care of it.
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0 By Jess on July 23, 2012 at 9:08 pm
I don't have all the answers, but we have a friend who is a PhD and works as a psychologist for the Choctaw nation. He is a Christian man. He has developed a way to help people forgive and heal. His website is: tradingpain.com I hope that this can help you. Praying that it will.
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0 By rut on February 25, 2013 at 4:58 pm
On my journey of like ,I too have had my love abused and misused, by husband and children. So I went to the scripturs. As it is written in Matt 5:44 we hav to pray for those who hurt and misue our love and as you do so the pain began to lighten. With obeying the Word of God you are releasing that pain to Christ, who heal all pain and feel those bitter with His enerzing grace
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+2 By George Nelson on July 23, 2012 at 8:11 am
Jem:

I don't know if this will help, but read Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things in Him who strengthens me. It isn't easy to forgive others, at least it isn't for me, but Jesus says that we must forgive or we won't be forgiven. We can only forgive with Jesus' help.

It's easy to give advise when I don't or haven't gone through what you're going through, so I hope my comment doesn't offend you. It wasn't meant to.
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+1 By christine on July 23, 2012 at 8:27 am
I think forgiveness is an act of the will. Its a choosing to forgive regardless of what our emotions are telling us. If you choose to love & forgive your husband, your emotions will follow.The sin of adultary is no greater than any other sin.God sees them all the same.See your husband as God sees him,as God sees you, and truely forgive. Do the things you did in the beginning of your marriage and your emotions will change.
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+2 By mtml on July 23, 2012 at 10:13 am
Dear Jem,

Thank you for being honest. It is not always easy. Keep giving yourself over to the Lord you will have a break through. I do not know you but love you.
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+2 By Jeffrey Flaker on July 23, 2012 at 8:08 pm
Here, I'll put it simply.
Forgiveness is letting the prisoner free, only to find out you were the prisoner. It doesn't mean you condone what was done, it just means that you have let go of the hurt and are no longer allowing it to control you. Neither does it mean you allow that person back into your life...unforgiveness is bagage!

Look at this video, it makes all this make sense.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wlTzgTW3WaE
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